Wednesday, 11 April 2012

Live by Hating..

This morning, I read a verse from the Bible saying that, 'man who love their life will lose it, those who loses their life will keep it to eternity'. Relax, I just read it and I'm still a Muslim (some people thought that, if you read Bible, you will convert. What the heck?). I wonder if anyone that reading this entry would agree that in our life, there is a time where you have been cheated by your so called "best friend forever". Or, maybe you experienced a situation where you got scolded by your love-partner in front of public. In other example, maybe you faced a most-dark-scenario where your boyfriend/girlfriend start to yell at you and almost take his/her hands on you. And I am pretty sure that you hate them. Or maybe you hate yourself. Right?


Ok, now look back at the verse that I read before. Regardless from where the verse came from, the point is clear; when you hate something, that is the thing that makes you who you are now. You hate your teachers because they yelled at you, yet they are the one who helped you to achieve whatever you have now. You hate to cover your hair properly, and when you cover it, you got your share for the heavens. You will keep it for a better things. So, that is few examples which can make your mind start to think about it.

Gentlemen, readers, I talk about Live by Hating. Weird topic isn't it? Hate can be define as feel dislike to something or feel distaste. While live can be define as lead a certain kind of life or in certain style. So, 'Live by Hating' can be summed up to a sentence; live in a certain kind of life which full of intense of dislike. Live in this way of life, actually leads more to damaging our own personality. Moreover, this kind of life will absolutely making us been ignored by people around, up to a point where the loneliness is inevitable. For sure, loneliness can make a normal human being become no more than an animal. The life simply crashed because of something what we call as heart-break. Aside from that, it will lead our life to nothing. It will seized our mind to set a goal in our life. The hatred will make the ability of a man to achieve something shattered away as simple as that.

Still, dust to dust, ashes to ashes, we are still human beings and there are some of us that live in this kind of life. We have to help them to bail out from this sadness. A massacre within their own life. Each every one of us need others to keep moving and we have to start to think who we are to people around us. The hatred among us have to be eliminated and we have to change ourselves in order to start pulling them out. 

And I believe, there will be one fine day where people will take a good care of others more than they care about themselves.

P/S: I wrote in English this time. I will be back in the next entry with my mother-tongue. 

17 comments:

miz_sesibur said...

~>>hating is a waste~~~ :)

Romeo Laut said...

Not really. Depends on what you hate. Right? Hating the act of homosexuals isn't that bad. Hahah. Depends.

miz_sesibur said...

hahaha...u r right!! :)

Mizz ErMa said...

live by hating? interesting~ =D so do i..sometimes, i keep wondering..why this happen to me? coz not all hating gave us a bad life..right? hihi

Cik Puan Muda Umi said...

bergantung kepada apa yg kita benci..kalau ia kearah kebaikan,takpe..kalau iri hati,hasad dengki,tu tak baik..kena cepat-cepat buang perasaan tu..hehe :)

Romeo Laut said...

Yaaa... kalian semua memang bijak dan cerdik. Begitulah juga jika kita membenci poligami. Sebenarnya ia membawa kebaikan yang banyak. Hahahahahahah.

Seri Ayu said...

"And I believe, there will be one fine day where people will take a good care of others more than they care about themselves."

topik yg menarik..
telus.

Romeo Laut said...

Cik Ayu, rasanya bila dah masuk kubur nanti baru boleh jadi macam ayat tu. Hahahah.

Disini Adrenalinku said...

live by hating is kind of childish action.

also a tiring unpaid helpless job.

worlds are full of joy, so taste the atmosphere buddy.

Romeo Laut said...

Taste the atmosphere? Erm... tak rasa apapun. Apa atmosphere memang ada perisa ke? Hahahah.

Disini Adrenalinku said...

tak rase? da tak lame kot..huahua

Romeo Laut said...

Hahah. Memang tak rasa apa. Tanyalah sesiapa pun. Orang yang kata ada rasa, mungkin patut tempah tanah dekat penggali kubur. Hahah.

Disini Adrenalinku said...

adakah konsep rasa hanya boleh menggunakan organ lidah ye? hahah.

Romeo Laut said...

Kalau deria rasa, memang tak salah lagi menggunakan lidah. Tak tahulah kalau anda menggunakan telinga untuk rasa garam, gula dan segala perisa. Hahahah.

Disini Adrenalinku said...

tu lah, tak sume orang ade deria ke-6, pakai hati. takpe, sgt paham kondisi romeo-romeo sedunia. heh.

Romeo Laut said...

Deria ke-6? Dah macam mutan. Hahah. Romeo-romeo sedunia memang baik semuanya. Rajin, terpuji, baik hati, ikhlas dan sebagainya. Pendek kata, memang hampir sempurna sebagai manusia biasa. Manusia biasa, bukan mutan ada banyak deria. Hahahah.

Disini Adrenalinku said...

kehausan pujian rupanya. takpe jgn kehausan kasih sayang sudah.

mutan. no matter how u call it,
KAU HADO?
huahua.